I am deeply convinced that any family dynamic is possible to change, even drastically. This of course only can happen under certain circumstances. And I can tell you that blaming, resentment, shutting down & pointing fingers is NOT the way ;-).
It needs openness, vulnerability, honest communication and deep awareness and accountability for ourselves.
I used to wonder, how it can be that my sister & me are so different, while having the same parents & growing up in the same household. Why couldn’t we get along with each other?
While now we live a 20min carried away from each other, both as expats I another country & I couldn’t have ever imagined the relationship we have now! I am so endlessly grateful for it!
By now I also know, that we did not have the same parents at all, its never like that, even with twin I assume its different.
Today I share with you my thoughts, feelings & experiences around these topics & if you want to hear more details, feel free to listen too thee Audio.
I would of course love to know how your experience this topic, as I assume this is something every human being goes through, one way or another.
Love,
Daria
Changing family dynamics